tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40867700539823931802024-03-13T14:12:01.701-07:00Jumping Down From the ShelfPeaceful Political Thoughts of a Midwestern Mama/Social Justice LoverGeorgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-11813904314931036802018-02-01T18:28:00.001-08:002018-02-01T19:09:25.739-08:00My February ResolutionOur spring semester writing circle has begun again, thank goodness. I need the encouragement, spirit and love I receive from my circle of smart women.<br />
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One of our writing prompts this week was "what do I need to shake off?" So easy to answer -- lots of stuff. But primarily I need to shake off the fear of speaking my truth.<br />
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Another prompt was "what brings you joy?" Easy again -- rhyming. It's not my <u>greatest</u> joy, of course, but since my brain seems to work in a sing-song sort of way and I spend much of my time knee-deep in music and lyrics, rhyming just comes natural.<br />
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My February Resolution is to write every single day, so here is my poem for the week, combining truth and rhymes:<br />
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In <strike>Honor of </strike> Response to the Koch Brothers</div>
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If I had 400 million dollars</div>
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To spend any way I would choose,</div>
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Would I pay to make voters sway my way?</div>
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Or would I buy lots of meals and some shoes?</div>
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Would I gather with other rich people</div>
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And like-minded right wing statisticians,</div>
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And deregulate things which won't make me a buck</div>
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Like Medicare and CO2 emissions?</div>
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Would I command huge fees for my wisdom?</div>
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Say, $10,000 a head, plus your lunch?</div>
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Or would it be best to share my smarts freely,</div>
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Like Jesus, Gandhi and that bunch?</div>
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And then would I consider where all my funds went;</div>
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A half million to Ryan -- where is it?</div>
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I think I would rather build nice little schools</div>
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Where I'd get a hug when I visit</div>
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Than pay for commercials and tons of junk mailings -- </div>
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the ephemera of all things political -- </div>
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So white guys in Congress will do as I ordain. </div>
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Sorry, I'm being so critical</div>
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But when I am dead and need money no longer,</div>
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What will folks point to and say,</div>
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"There's what she did; there's the people she loved;</div>
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these things are much better today"?<br />
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Peace,</div>
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Georgie </div>
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Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-31736546836791599572017-10-13T19:53:00.000-07:002017-10-17T13:34:01.002-07:00On Taking a Knee<div class="MsoNormal">
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I took a knee today, just to tie my shoe.</div>
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Not folding from the waist as I had admired the cheerleaders
doing at a football game in 1975 as I sat and sweated in my purple wool band uniform
and fuzzy white shako, waiting for our director to lift his baton and lead us
in “On Wisconsin” as the flexible cheerleaders bounced in their snuggly-tied
shoes, because I knew that bending my knees was better for my back and that I
could bend at the waist all day long and still not be popular.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I took a knee today to clean the litter box.<br />
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Cat #1 seemed to understand the nasty nature of my chore, and
waited patiently as I scooped and threw away her leavings, thoroughly washed my hands,
made a cup of tea and sat down to read so she could climb on my lap. Cat #2 barely noticed me working as she slid
by on her way to her morning perch in my bedroom window to study her
birds. I thought of the boys at the long-ago Bar
Mitzvah party who threw their napkins at me as they ran by, one of them laughing as he said, “Give
it to the maid,” and I wanted to shout back, “I’m with the caterer,” and came
home and cried because I didn’t want to be a maid, I was in grad school dammit
and now here I am scooping poop into a plastic grocery bag. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I took a knee today to pick up spilled pistachios.<br />
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I actually took two knees and one hand to balance, one hand
to scoop up the nuts. I had poured
pistachios into a bowl for Olive, and gave her another bowl for the shells she
loved to crack open all by her 3-year-old self, but she insisted on keeping the
nearly-full bag on the footstool beside us as we read and cracked and ate
pistachios, one for me, three for her. I wish
I had vacuumed before she came over that afternoon and before the bag took a
tumble; I watched a few cat hairs go into the bag along with the
pistachios. “Oh no,“ I said, “cat hair!” Olive kept on scooping and said, “It’s OK, Mimi,
a little cat hair never hurt anyone” and I wondered how many times in her
little life someone has told her “a little blank never hurt anyone.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s good to take a knee and a breather after an uphill
climb on a beautiful fall hike. Kurt Vonnegut
said, “…I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur
or think at some point, ‘If this isn’t nice, I don’t know what is.’” I like to think he would be a big advocate of taking
a knee. <o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s good to take a knee in the presence of something holy. <o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s good to take a knee and think on the common bonds of
our humanness, the struggles we understand but do not suffer, the peace we all
want.<o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s no good to go around with an untied shoe or a litter
box full of poop or pistachios all over the floor. <o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s no good to close my eyes to the messy reality of my house or
the world, to hope that my shoelaces will tie themselves and that all people will treat all people with respect and love. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I take a knee and acknowledge the mess around me; I honor
the mess that comes from owning a home (and sharing it with pets). I honor the pistachios we eat, a child who loves me and shoes on my
feet. I acknowledge the mess we find
ourselves in as a nation and honor the great hope and possibility that
exists in the simple act of listening to our brothers and sisters. <o:p></o:p></div>
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And when I take a knee, it’s good to have
someone right there beside me -- cat or 3-year-old -- acknowledging
that my work is important. It means something, this low-level work.<br />
It’s prayer.
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Because a little time on a knee never hurt anyone.<br />
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Peace.<br />
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<o:p></o:p></div>
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Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-2504188153434204882017-10-04T08:38:00.000-07:002017-10-04T21:26:19.528-07:00Something Has to Change<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I would never steal money. But because someone stole money in a big-time bingo game operation somewhere in Northern Indiana, the Board of the Southern Indiana Center for the Arts (of which I've recently become a member), has to jump through a hundred and one hoops in order to get a license to sell raffle tickets at the event we're having in November to try to save the Center. We handed over copies of our meeting minutes from many years previous, turned in proof that we have a separate bank account for gaming, and sent in the names, addresses, dates of birth, and DL numbers for each Board member who will be selling $1 raffle tickets for the chance to win gift baskets (valued at somewhere around $50 each) at the event. It may seem ridiculous, but I understand that it's what must be done because A) someone broke the rules, B) this is how it works now, and C) it's for the good of all.<br />
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I would never molest a child. But because some adults -- priests, teachers, coaches, Jerry Sandusky -- have molested children, I can no longer drive children to field trips without a state police background check, and at St. Ambrose School, I had to take a class so I would be more aware of how abusers think and where abusers may lurk. Shudder. If I'm helping 4-H children, I can't be alone with a child in a room or a car, and all 4-H volunteers must sit through online awareness sessions even if they have worked with children for 40 years without the hint of incident. (Sometimes I wonder if when I give a music or sewing or knitting lesson, should a parent always stay? Just in case?) It is pretty ridiculous that a little <strike>old</strike> middle-aged woman like me has to worry about this, but I understand that it's what must be done because A) someone broke the rules and B) this is how it works now, and C) it's for the good of all.<br />
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I would never shoot anyone. But because someone shot and killed 20 children and 6 teachers at Sandy Hook Elementary in 2012, because someone shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 others at the Pulse Night Club in Orlando in 2016, because someone killed 59 and wounded over 500 people in Las Vegas this week, and because someone shoots and kills someone else in our country <i>every single day</i>, it logically follows that private citizens shouldn't be able to own guns any longer. It's pretty ridiculous, but that's what must be done because A) someone broke the rules and B) this is how it must work now, and, C) it's for the good of all.<br />
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If I were Queen of America, I <b><i>would</i></b><i><b> like</b> </i>to say this:<br />
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I am really sorry for all of you who love to trap shoot or shoot cans off of </div>
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fence posts at your neighbor's farm. I've done that -- it's really fun. </div>
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But you're going to have to find something else fun to do. </div>
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I am really sorry for those of you who hunt to eat. </div>
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But you're going to have to start buying </div>
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your meat at the grocery store like the rest of us. </div>
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I am sorry for those of you who feel safer carrying<br />
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But you're going to have to take some classes in Jackie Chan-style martial arts </div>
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or even better, take a yoga class, meditate and get right with the universe.</div>
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I am really sorry for all of you who get a huge hard-on from owning and </div>
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shooting semi-automatic (or illegally-modified automatic) weapons. </div>
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No scratch that. I don't really feel too sorry for you. </div>
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I am so sorry someone broke the rules, but because they did, </div>
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<b>you can't continue doing what you want to do the way you like to do it.</b> </div>
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This is simple Parenting 101. </div>
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This is Elementary Teaching 101. </div>
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This is American Citizenship 101.</div>
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It's for the good of all.</div>
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Here is what I <b><i>will </i></b>say:</div>
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Something has to change. Something has to change. Something has to change.</div>
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While I wish in my little Pollyanna-shaped heart that the change could be that the Second Amendment is rescinded* and we go door-to-door in every neighborhood, apartment complex and hotel room in the country and collect guns in canvas bags and bury them deep, deep in the ground in the middle of the Grand Canyon where no one is allowed to go ever again, I know in my regular old slightly cynical heart that that is not going to happen.<br />
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I believe in change, and that the change starts with hearts. We must, as a country, change our hearts so that we can, each and every one of us, say this:</div>
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LIVES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN GUN OWNERSHIP</div>
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It is more important that children are not killed in their classrooms than it is for me to own a gun.</div>
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It is more important that people can fearlessly attend a concert, go to a movie or dance their asses off at a club than it is for me to own a gun. </div>
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It is more important that young people in troubled neighborhoods can walk safely home than it is for me to own a gun. </div>
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It is more important that women in difficult or violent relationships are not killed by guns than it is for me to own a gun. </div>
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It is more important that police officers not be shot, or even fear being shot, in the course of a routine traffic stop than it is for me to own a gun. </div>
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It is more important that people can go to work in a factory, shop or office and be safe and come home to supper every night and be safe and gripe about their work and then sleep with their partner and be safe and get up and do it all again the next day than it is for me to own a gun. </div>
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It is more important that children are not killed in their classrooms than it is for me to own a gun.</div>
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I know, I wrote that twice. That's how important it is to me.<br />
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If you cannot speak those words -- "lives are more important than gun ownership" -- then I just don't know about you. You make me sad. </div>
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What can we do besides say those words? </div>
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Live those words. </div>
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Support organizations that call for sane gun laws. They're right over there on the right, if you'd like to read more or send them some money. </div>
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Tell your Senators and Congresspeople that you care about gun laws. You care about licenses and registries, you care about silencers, you care about the ease with which a semi-automatic weapon can be modified into an automatic weapon (and yes, I did just learn about that yesterday.) Your legislators are listed right over there, too.<br />
Better yet, tell them you will not vote for them if they continue to support relaxed gun laws and take money from the NRA. I had to tell Senator Donnelly just that this morning.</div>
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Best, run for office. Replace those who put gun de-regulation and NRA funding above human life.<br />
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That's what I think I might do. </div>
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Although my friend, Nancy Franke (who I support <i>almost </i>100%), is running again for District 69 Indiana State Representative against current Representative and NRA Supportee Jim Lucas, she is a Republican like him; if she loses in the Primary, someone needs to run against him in the General election as a Democrat, Libertarian, Green or KP (that's Kindness Party -- I'm inventing that one right now.) </div>
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I volunteer as tribute. </div>
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I never thought about being a State Representative -- well, maybe I did when I was in high school, and hugely admired my dad's friend, Joe Corcoran, who served in that office and was instrumental in bringing Vietnamese refugees to our town. He was a great man, and not just because he sent me a letter the one time I made the Dean's List at Purdue. (I still have it.) </div>
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But after last November's election, I made a decision to run for something -- to do <i>something</i> besides write letters to Jim Lucas and others in state and national government. But I was planning on something more local, more quiet -- like a seat on our school board. </div>
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I really don't want to run for District 69 because I know I will be crushed on social media by Lucas's followers, just like I am every time I call him out on policies, votes or bill introductions that I believe are contrary to basic human kindness and/or are geared toward gun proliferation. But heeding my own words, <i><b>lives are more important than my discomfort</b></i>. </div>
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I really don't want to run for District 69 Representative because I know exactly zero about how to run for office (except for watching every episode of <i>The West Wing</i>), I have exactly $0 to run for office and I have zero idea of how much time, effort and schmoozing are involved. </div>
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I really don't want to run for District 69 Representative because a) I have a shit ton of stuff going on in my life; b) State Representatives probably shouldn't say things like "shit ton"; c) I'll never get my novel written; and d) I don't have a business suit or a pair of low heels in my closet, which is actually full of tunics, leggings, Birkenstocks, and paint-splattered t-shirts and yoga pants. </div>
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But I think I might have to do it. </div>
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If not now, when? If not me, who?</div>
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At the very least, I'll start studying up and think about this idea until some super smart politically-savvy person says, "That woman doesn't know anything about anything except baking cookies, sassy blog posts, knitting hats and playing Baptist hymns by heart -- I better run instead." </div>
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Or even better, how about every super smart person who lives in Indiana District 69 and believes in reasonable gun laws runs for Representative? </div>
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It's for the good of all.</div>
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Peace.<br />
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*and for those of you who want to get all pissy with me about the Constitution, I understand the complex and nearly impossible chance that the Second Amendment will ever be rescinded. I further understand the complexity of the consequences to the states that such a repeal would entail-- it would be a mess. I'm not a Constitutional expert; I just read a lot. But I dream a lot, too, and in my dreams, James Madison is shaking his head at us and saying, "That's not what I meant at all, you doofuses."</div>
Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-44620363129179215462017-09-06T16:38:00.000-07:002017-10-04T09:22:33.631-07:00#defendDACA<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Here's who I stand with:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span>
<a href="http://www.rcan.org/statement-cardinal-joseph-w-tobin-rescission-daca-executive-order"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Cardinal Joseph Tobin of the Archdiocese of Newark</span></a><br />
<a href="http://archindy.org/criterion/national/09-05-daca.html"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Archbishop Charles C. Thompson of Indianapolis</span></a><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Sister Helen Prejean</span><br />
<a href="http://globalsistersreport.org/news/migration/daca-decision-meets-swift-catholic-condemnation-48981"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The sisters of St. Benedict, Ferdinand</span></a><br />
<a href="https://spsmw.org/2017/09/05/statement-leadership-conference-women-religious-lcwr-expressing-disappointment-recent-daca-decision/"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Sisters of Providence, Saint-Mary-of-the-Woods</span></a><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; letter-spacing: 0.17px;">The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops</span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; letter-spacing: 0.17px;">Governor John Kasich, Ohio (R)</span><br />
<a href="http://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20170905006166/en/Cummins-Chairman-CEO-Issues-Statement-Support-DACA"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Tom Linebarger, Chairman and CEO of Cummins Engine Company</span></a><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Jeff Bezos, Amazon CEO</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Tim Cook, Apple CEO</span><br />
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Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-15753901822229656732017-09-02T09:17:00.000-07:002017-10-04T09:23:33.690-07:00Someone Triggered the Snowflake<a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UKXtq3dU9UI/WdUJf-TM58I/AAAAAAAAGDE/6ZQBivJjus4LBccu4OhVxOazIPZ70brSACLcBGAs/s1600/tender%2Blittle%2Bsnowflake.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="512" data-original-width="512" height="200" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UKXtq3dU9UI/WdUJf-TM58I/AAAAAAAAGDE/6ZQBivJjus4LBccu4OhVxOazIPZ70brSACLcBGAs/s200/tender%2Blittle%2Bsnowflake.png" width="200" /></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Today is a writing day. Clay is gone with his buddies, and I texted my kids that I would be holed up in my workroom all day (pretending I was back in that little TV-less room at St. Meinrad where I was oh-so productive, dashing off pages and pages of serious prose and a couple of not-so-serious poems) and would be avoiding my phone. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">You know, it hurts to be called crazy when all you believe in is equal opportunity for all. </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you believe in civil rights. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you believe in the beauty and power of public education.</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">It hurts to be called crazy when you believe the death penalty is an American atrocity.</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you believe that immigration is a natural part of the growth of our society and that all should be welcomed and more quickly and easily granted the path to citizenship if that is what they desire. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you believe that love is love is love is love is love. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you grumble like every other American at the prospect of tax increases, but understand that taxes are what you pay to live here. To drive on paved roads, receive police and fire protection, hike the National Parks, sleep at night knowing that our country is protected by its strong military, and pray that a greater portion of those taxes will be used to bring about equality and justice in the forms of more jobs, more programs for those in need of healthcare, housing and nutrition, and more assurance that as we grow older our needs will be met, as well. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you believe in business and industry, but also believe that business and industry have been allowed to "over benefit" from revision to tax code and deregulation; when you recognize the financial disparity between those at either end of the American class system brought on by those "benefits." </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When you love this great country with all your heart and cannot imagine living anywhere else, yet understand that Americans are just a small part of a global community who carry a great socio-economic responsibility to bring about peace and justice worldwide. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">It hurts to be called crazy when you believe that we are all stewards of the earth and owe the planet respect and love in the forms of regulation of pollutants to our vast yet finite supply of air, water and soil and in the development of energy sources other than oil; when you believe that climate change is natural, inevitable but amplified by environmental practices and must be studied further. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="color: #1d2129;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="color: #1d2129;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">When you believe that the Second Amendment has been manipulated from its original vision -- that of allowing newly-minted Americans (ie, immigrants) in the infancy of our country to protect themselves from those foreign invaders who would challenge our freedom to be Americans -- into its current manifestation wherein people believe the Amendment guarantees their right to carry a gun anywhere, any time, without education, license or registration; when you believe that the rights of those to carry weapons seriously screws with your personal vision of a more perfect union and domestic tranquility. When you believe that</span></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> those who signed the Constitution could not have foreseen a day when innocents are killed by gun violence every day. </span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Every single day. </span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">It hurts to be called crazy when you know that you cannot possibly understand every single American's situation. When you recognize that you are highly privileged -- that you can read, drive, have a roof over your head and meals at your table, and therefore cannot even begin to make decisions/judgments/legislation about others without intense discussion, continuous conversation, and equitable representation.</span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">It hurts to be called crazy when you believe that your liberal political views stem from what you see as simple kindness and love of every human being on the planet. </span></span></span><br />
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I anticipated that <a href="http://dowdyfeathers.blogspot.com/2017/06/starting-again.html#.WUKGQusrKM9">my post on my State Representative's Facebook page </a>would cause him to re-think his words, go to work at a women's shelter, stop posting so darn often (36 posts on June 13th), beg for forgiveness, and bury his guns deep, deep in the ground. </div>
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(In fairness, <a href="http://www.indystar.com/story/opinion/readers/2017/06/12/rep-jim-lucas-lets-talk-violence-against-women/389284001/">he did apologize</a>. Sorta. In his own way. And he did talk with Michelle Kuiper, the woman from the original Star article, and they are at peace with one another. So I count that as a win.)</div>
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I anticipated that lots of people wouldn't like what I said, and I knew that I would get a verbal smack down from Rep. Lucas's fans. (As it says over there on the right, I'm OK with that. Some of the words really stung, but like a bee sting, with a little time the sting goes away. I'm thankful I'm not allergic to either bees or words!) </div>
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I anticipated that my words would be misconstrued. Maybe that's one thing that Rep. Lucas and I have in common. I'm fairly certain that many of the people who commented on the post didn't read past my first sentence, and didn't read my second post at all. To those who did, thanks. </div>
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What I <i><b>did not</b></i> anticipate is that the post would end up on BuzzFeed, cbsnews.com and nbcnews.com. At first I was secretly thrilled and shared the BuzzFeed page with a few friends. But I'm not going to link the pages here, as I'm still a little overwhelmed by how far this has spread -- it's my own little Pandora's Box. </div>
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What I <b><i>did not</i></b> anticipate is my intense need to seek some sort of peace. I certainly don't need to be forgiven and I'm not seeking an apology for his "how low can you go" comment (sting), but I was hoping for some sort of acknowledgement that I tried to be civil and kind. On Sunday evening, 6/11, at 4:53, after lots of friends were sending me links to the national news coverage, I was feeling a little shattered and wrote this to Rep. Lucas in a private message:</div>
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<i style="color: #222222; font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">After all that has occurred in the media after my comments on your post from Monday, I felt a need to write to you. I hope you saw my second post in that original thread, but if you didn't, I'll say once again that in using the term “rape culture,” I did not mean to offend you; while I believe you made a poor choice to write the letter, then a poor choice of wording within the letter, I never meant to imply that you condoned rape, rapists or sexual violence. It remains, however, that what I read in your words amounts to blaming those who don't see and do things as you see and do them -- your "this is why you carry" tag for each posting on terrorism carries with it the clear implication that if one were carrying a gun, one wouldn’t be dead. I've had some excellent, civil exchanges with one of your adamant supporters about this very point this week – he insists that you are not a “victim blamer” and that you and I want the same things. I’ve contemplated that deeply while reading through your Facebook feed, legislation and news articles, but still don’t agree. You and I will never probably never agree on anything (except the fact that your children are wonderful and that this is a great country), and even though I would love to throw my 2 cents in on many of your posts, I probably won't, as the blow back from this one has been rough on my spiritual peace. You are right that there is a lot of hatred (from both sides); the name-calling, belittling and cruel assumptions from both sides don't help to further the conversation. I read every comment on the post, and many made me stop and consider the validity of my reply, but I still stand by my words – to quote Thomas Paine, “He who dares not offend cannot be honest.” And yet I still feel the need to keep a peace between us (and all people), for to quote TP again, “The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.” And by the way, riding in honor and memory of Hunter today was a good thing. I’ll never forget his sweet face from his days at St. Ambrose School. Georgiann </i><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">(Rep. Lucas had participated in a motorcycle ride that honored fallen soldiers -- Hunter Hogan was 21 years old when he was killed in Afghanistan on June 23, 2012.)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I know that Rep. Lucas read -- or at least glanced at -- this message at 6:51 PM Sunday evening. (Thanks, smart phone technology!) However, </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I haven't received a reply. In his letter to The Star on Monday, June 6, Rep. Lucas wrote, <i>...</i></span><i style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> soon there were those on social media who attacked me for “victim blaming” and spreading the culture of rape. Instead of discussing the matter civilly, many used reprehensible verbal abuse to condemn my letter ...</span></i><br />
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">While I stand by my assertion that hundreds of his posts illustrate victim blaming, I surely wouldn't say I "attacked" him; believe me, I've re-read my reply about a hundred times trying to decide if I am "reprehensible". And civil discussion is one of my favorite things. <i> </i>You know my theme song --</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I know better than to think that Rep. Lucas would copy and paste my words into a Facebook post, but I was hoping for a little acknowledgment. Just a smidge. Because he <b><i>did</i></b> copy and paste a lot of the hateful things people wrote to him. Really, really hateful. I am ashamed at the hate some people who support my same position spewed at Rep. Lucas. While I wish he were not my state representative, I don't hate him and I don't wish any harm to him, his family or his supporters. That sort of talk must stop in all sectors of our society. </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">That being said, what I've finally learned (sometimes I'm a slow learner) is that Rep. Lucas really loves the controversy. He loves to stir the pot. Kick up the dirt. Shovel the shit, as it were. For if he truly loved civil discussion, he would have maintained a civil discourse with me, right? Instead, he ignores my notes and continues to post things that delight and rally his supporters. For example, he garnered intense media scrutiny and snowflake criticism this past December and January for posting two memes which were degrading to women (and I don't care if 9,500 people -- "including women!" Lucas interjected -- liked the memes, they are still degrading). You can google "Jim Lucas offensive memes" if you like, but I'm not going to link them here because ... well, just ick. In what I think was a poor political move (but what do I know? I thought Pence's political career was over with RFRA and Trump's over with the Billy Bush interview...) and unbecoming to someone in an elected leadership position, </span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">he<b> re-posted them this week </b>as an attempted illustration of how those of us left of center read too much into his posts and don't have a sense of humor. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Huh. I am fucking hilarious. Ask anyone. I just don't like memes of women in car trunks. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">They (the POTUS and Rep. Lucas, not my sister and her meme-making) both need to stop. But then, so do I. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I've done what I thought I had to do -- resisting, persisting and peace-making. I didn't accomplish much but stress myself out, so now I'll just let Rep. Lucas and his Facebook page be. Refuse to engage.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Until the next election. Sting.</span></div>
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Did you hear the one about the woman who knit eight Pussy Hats for eight amazing women to wear at marches and rallies despite the fact that she doesn't like the word "pussy" even when extended to her favorite cats and who was verbally attacked in the grocery store by a woman she thought was her friend and wondered for a few days if she really was "disgusting" for knitting said hats until she decided that nah, she wasn't, and picked up her needles to knit four more for her friends in California? <br />
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I didn't think so. But isn't is a good one?<br />
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You'll probably like this one, too. <br />
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The amazing women who kicked off the Pussy Hat knitting revolution are starting another one -- the <a href="https://www.welcomeblanket.org/">Welcome Blanket project</a>. The plan is to use 2000 miles (the length of Trump's proposed US/Mexico wall) of yarn to knit up 3200 blankets to be given to new immigrants to the United States. <br />
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You can find a pattern on their website; if you've been to my knitting classes, you'll recognize the <a href="https://www.welcomeblanket.org/patterns/">Come Together Blanket pattern</a> as a variation on the Grandmother's Favorite dishcloth -- 16 simple squares knit in two colors, and especially beautiful set together as in a quilt. (But I'm sure the organizers will be thrilled with any 40"x 40" blanket you choose to make.) <br />
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This is a lovely, compassionate (and warm!) project that I am excited to take part in. If you would like to participate but don't know how to knit, come to our Knit Night at the Jackson County Library, Seymour, on the second and fourth Thursdays of the month at 6:30. We'd love to have you join us -- we don't talk about politics, but we all knit with kindness.<br />
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Peace.<br />
<br />Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-40069462126199925162017-06-06T19:30:00.000-07:002017-06-14T09:41:34.616-07:00Starting Again<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It is June, and I haven't posted since February. <br />
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I've been on retreat.<br />
I've been to the UK.<br />
I've been the music director for an amazing production of <i>Little Shop of Horrors</i>.<br />
I've run an event attended by 1000+ people.<br />
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I've been busy.<br />
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In those three months I've also spent a lot of time being embarrassed by the actions of our President.<br />
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I joined Twitter to read and shudder at the off-the-cuff, grammatically-inept and lexically-challenged rantings of our President. (This might have been a mistake -- Twitter kicks my spiritual peace right in the ass.)<br />
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I've written to The White House, Senators and Congresspersons, in union with those who love our Mother Earth (and who are much smarter than I am) and who know that climate change is real.<br />
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I've had the wind taken out of my sails, and wondered at the futility of fighting back against an administration whose policies and attitude toward others -- individuals, countries, races, ethnicities and genders -- is incompatible to all that I hold true, dear, and important, and yet barrels forward with seemingly little concern for the consequences of words and actions. (Our President could have used a few life lessons from my parents. Although I often ignore my mom's sweet soft advice that echoes in my head to "think before I speak,"-- sorry, mom -- my dad's ceaseless "actions have consequences" speeches boom in my mind every day. Every single day.)<br />
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In other words, I haven't been much of a warrior. I even considered deleting this blog. Gasp.<br />
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But then a friend (OK, it was my sister) sent me a screenshot of our State Representative's Facebook post and commentary on the most recent London terrorist attack, as she knew that Clay and I had just walked those bridges in London eight weeks ago, and that after watching news coverage, Clay realized that one of the pubs involved was a pub where we had stopped for a pint. While the Representative's "this is why you carry" and "THIS IS WHY I FIGHT FOR YOUR GUN RIGHTS" comments almost made me break my self-imposed exile from commenting on his posts, I was stopped -- and shocked -- by one of his more recent posts. He shared this (one of his 25 Facebook posts on Monday, but I'm not judging. Ok, yes, I am.):<br />
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and I sort of lost my mind and wrote this, even though I knew better. Even though Clay (who agrees with me, bless his little liberal-leaning heart) warned me of what would happen:<br />
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<i>This letter does nothing but further the culture of rape by placing responsibility firmly on the rape victim. While I love kick-ass women who have been well-trained to take down an attacker, your suggestion of "learning how not to be a victim" is a faulty and short-sighted solution. Rape victims include children, older women, disabled women, mentally challenged women -- women for whom self-defense classes are a non-starter. And, if your definition of avoiding victimization is to carry a gun, you know that there are millions of women like me for whom this could never be an option. Please don't add "if only she'd taken a self-defense class" and "if only she'd had a gun" to the already amazingly long list of rape excuses like "she was asking for it".</i><br />
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I thought that was pretty peaceful, thoughful, etc., etc., etc.<br />
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Representative Lucas responded:<br />
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<i>Seriously? Furthering the culture of rape??? That's about as low as you can go right there, Georgiann! There is no such thing as 100% guarantee to not have bad or horrible things happen to you, but to completely ignore the vast amount of training that is out there that teaches women things to look for so that they don't put themselves in the position of becoming victimized is foolish. Why wouldn't someone want to mitigate and try to prevent a horrible tragedy such as this?</i><br />
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I really don't think he understood what I was saying. I'm wondering if he read past the first sentence? And then he invited his friends to respond to me, which they did. Ouch. And to which I responded:<br />
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<i>Jim Lucas, first off, I certainly didn't mean to offend you with that term -- you know that's not how I roll. But rape culture is a term we live with in today's America. It's on television, in movies, at fraternity parties -- the culture that normalizes sexual violence. It's the culture that says "boys will be boys with boyish urges" and puts the onus on rape victims. That was my point. It's a harsh term. But when 1 in 5 women in this country are victims of sexual violence, I don't think it's a term I/we can back away from. And actually, I thought I was going high, in defense of women who cannot or would not participate in classes like Tamara teaches (I know and love lots of women who have taken her classes -- as a feminist, I would never tell another woman she shouldn't take the classes.) I understand that you're calling for fairness in the press --a "let's look at another side of the story" call. I think that there is a third </i>(and I should have added "more important")<i> side -- the side that says let's teach boys and men not to use and abuse women in sexually violent ways. The side that says no woman is asking for rape, despite how she looks, acts, dresses or how drunk she is. I'm pretty sure we can agree on that one. Peace.</i><br />
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He didn't respond to that. His friends did. Ouch again. But several of my real-life friends came to my defense (even if they don't agree with me, it was kind of them to do so).<br />
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But you know what? He didn't make me cry this time. (He's made me cry before, like the time he turned his back on me in public, Amish-shunning style, after I wrote an opinion piece in our local paper questioning his upcoming legislation that would relax gun laws.) I didn't cry, even when his friends called me ignorant. Even when one said I failed at reading comprehension. Even when one assumed I had never been the victim of sexual violence. Even when he invited his friends to take me to a self-defense/shooting class and he would pay my tuition.<br />
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Because I know that I am right. <br />
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Representative Lucas (I don't know why I'm addressing him, as I am fairly certain he will never visit this blog, but anyway...), we cannot blame rape victims for their lack of awareness,
their inability to defend themselves and their failure to carry a weapon. Your letter to The Star implies that you
can. Your pattern of blame in response
to tragedy implies that you will. I
am asking you to stop compounding tragedy by blaming victims. <br />
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And hey. Thanks for reminding me that I need to keep writing this blog. <br />
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Peace, my friends.<br />
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<br />Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-77185066432660779352017-02-01T06:53:00.003-08:002017-02-01T13:50:30.480-08:00What To Do, What To Do? <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I think I'm Piglet.<br />
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I'm trying to be brave.<br />
I really want to be helpful, but I'm just not sure of how to make that happen. <br />
And today, I'm scared.<br />
I feel very small and lost in the mist.<br />
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Here's what scares me:<br />
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I'm frightened by the ugliness I see on social media, coming from all sides. No matter what happens in Washington, DC or our statehouses in the next 2-4 years, can we ever repair the fissure that the 2016 elections have ripped in our national consciousness? <br />
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I'm frightened by those who think social media is <i>the</i> media.<br />
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I'm frightened by those who think they know things, but don't. But yet, they feel compelled to speak or write without knowing the facts or the truth. I am not afraid to tell you that there are lots of things I don't know and even more that I don't understand. I do know lots of things; however, because I was a smart girl growing up in the 1960's in small town Indiana and spent a lot of my elementary school days with tape over my mouth because I just couldn't <i><b>not</b></i> say the things I knew, I am still a little afraid to tell you what I know. Because it's bothersome, plus the boys wouldn't find it attractive ... but that, my darlings, is a blog post for another day...<br />
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I'm frightened by those who think they know things and believe that "research" is looking something up on the Internet and then quoting Breitbart or Newsmax.<br />
I wish I had a nickle and two Advil for every time I read "Do your research!" on Facebook.<br />
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I know I'm a bit of a snob about this, but I was one of those kids on the high school debate team who read and took notes from <a href="https://www.congress.gov/congressional-record">The Congressional Record</a> (even though I wasn't a very good debater nor a very good note taker) and spent my first two semesters at the University of Akron as a miserable research assistant (I started to hate going to the library, and I <u>love</u> the library). Research involves investigating, citing, annotating, other time-consuming work and a crap ton of index cards. Research is <b>not</b> re-posting a meme, and a meme is not a fact even though 32,496 people have shared it.<br />
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Today, I'm frightened by those who say, "Keep you hands off of my sacred 2nd Amendment rights" and yet think it is perfectly fine to question the validity of 1st Amendment, one of my personal favorites. It is so important that <b>it is first</b>, and guarantees freedoms of the press, of speech, of the free exercise of religion and of assembly. (There's a printable Constitution link on the right. It's good reading; I'm also quite fond of the 13th, the 15th, the 19th and the 21st -- let's all vote and drink together!)<br />
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President Trump denounced the press throughout his campaign, hoping that we would all conclude that the press was biased. Primarily against him.<br />
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Geeze, Louise, Mr. Trump. Of course the press is biased -- from Benjamin Franklin, whose anonymous pamphlets generated interest in issues that would profit him ("Hey, let's print paper money! On my printing presses!"), to Spiro Agnew lashing out against the liberal press opposed to the Vietnam war by calling them "nattering nabobs of negativism" (my dad loved that phrase -- I probably got tape on my mouth for repeating it at school) to every American paper in every American city endorsing a candidate in every American presidential election. Read a little <a href="https://chomsky.info/">Noam Chomsky</a>, will you? <br />
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And as for the Johnson Amendment, a 1954 tax code which prohibits certain organizations (like churches) from endorsing political candidates, and which I hadn't even heard of until Mr. Trump made it an issue, I'll just say this: I love my country and I love my church. I also love coffee and gravy, but don't want them in the same cup -- that is a disgusting mess that would end up in the garbage. Allowing more religious influence in American politics is opening a Pandora's box of discrimination and hatred, i.e., disgusting mess. <br />
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Meanwhile, there were 5,037 episodes of gun violence in this country in January, 2017. <br />
There were 1,316 deaths due to gun violence in January, 2017.<br />
This morning in Virginia, a 6-year-old brought a gun to school in a backpack.<br />
Happy February, 2nd Amendment fans. <br />
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My dad always said a little fear was a good thing. While I think he said it in regard to my teenage curfew, I think it applies here, as well. Being a little frightened makes you a little more aware and a lot more careful. <br />
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<i>"'Supposing a tree fell down, Pooh, when we were underneath it?'</i></div>
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<i>'Supposing it didn't,' said Pooh after careful thought.</i></div>
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Peace.</div>
<br />Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-88443550285335416932017-01-31T07:08:00.000-08:002017-02-01T12:39:17.140-08:00Making A SJW Resource ListI spent a lot of yesterday scouring the Internet (when I should have been working, practicing, cleaning or writing letters to loved ones, which was one of my 2017 resolutions. Perhaps I'll make that a February resolution).<br />
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I collected links to government officials, organizations and websites that might come in handy in your own SJW journey. They're over there on the right. It's just a starter -- I'll be adding to it often. If you have some sites you think should be included, just let me know and I'll add them.</div>
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Peace. </div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">As I writer, I want to be make an impact. Go deep. Be profound. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Today, I'm not feeling that. Luckily, today's Mass readings for the Catholic church are all of that and a spoonful of Nutella (you know what I mean: beautiful, satisfying, and just what you need). Thanks to my dear friend, Lori, who texted me last Tuesday as she was reading ahead, and alerted me as to timely perfection of these passages. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">The first reading, from Zephaniah, Chapter 2:</span><br />
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">who have observed his law; </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">seek justice, seek humility;</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">perhaps you may be sheltered </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">on the day of the Lord's anger.</span></i><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">And next, in Psalm 146: </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>secures justice for the oppressed,</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>gives food to the hungry.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>The Lord sets captives free.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i>The Lord gives sight to the blind;</i></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>the Lord raises up those who were bowed down.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>The Lord loves the just;</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>the Lord protects strangers.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i>The fatherless and the widow the Lord sustains,</i></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>but the way of the wicked he thwarts.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>The Lord shall reign forever;</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>your God, O Zion, through all generations. Alleluia.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;">And the Gospel, from Matthew, </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy... Blessed are the peacemakers ... Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness ... rejoice and be glad for yours is the kingdom of heaven. </i></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia, times new roman, times, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white;">Could these passages be any more important? Nutella, I tell you. </span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: "arial"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: 700; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-weight: normal;">Peace.</span></span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: "arial"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: 700; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-weight: normal;">PS If you don't have Bible handy and want to meditate on the daily readings, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops has a calendar <a href="http://www.usccb.org/calendar/index.cfm?showLit=1">here</a>. </span></span></div>
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I know. I told you in my last post how I hate the word "pussy" and now I'm showing off a pussy hat.<br />
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What can I say? When I first read about the project, I jumped on the Pussy Hat bandwagon (you can read about the project <a href="https://www.pussyhatproject.com/">here</a>) because I believe in solidarity. Sticking together. Knitting for good. Peaceful protest. Everyone wearing the same hat.<br />
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I was going to ship my hat to Washington DC, but of course, missed the deadline (cause that's how I roll. Or fail to roll) so I gifted it to my friend, Katrina, who wore it to the march in Indianapolis because she's kind of fabulous.<br />
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There were lots and lots of hats. The hats made the news. The hats made history.<br />
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While talking to a few friends, we concluded that we all dislike the word "pussy", but agreed that the word was absolutely appropriate, having been unintentionally chosen for the movement by President Trump himself on that fateful bus ride with Billy Bush (which I was sure signaled the end of his candidacy. Silly me.)<br />
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I'm not going to try to categorize knitters, just as we shouldn't stuff anyone who marched last Saturday into some predetermined tidy little labeled box -- there were nuns, Muslims, pro-lifers, pro-choicers and even men on the March. But I've knit for most of my life, have taught knitting for the last 12 years, and have met more knitters than I can count. I have yet to meet a knitter who wasn't kind, thoughtful, and giving. (Wait. I just thought of one. And got a shiver.) I know the political leanings of only a few of my knitting friends; we don't usually talk politics when we knit together -- we talk knitting, food, knitting for others, pets, knitting, children, knitting for children, weather forecasts and knitting. <br />
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So I was surprised yesterday when one of my best friends, Pam, from Franklin, Tennessee, sent me <a href="http://www.tennessean.com/story/news/local/williamson/2017/01/25/franklin-yarn-shop-asks-womens-movement-supporters-shop-elsewhere/97032576/">this link</a>. It's the story of Elizabeth Poe, who owns a knitting shop called The Joy of Knitting in Franklin. On Facebook, she posted that women who were coming to her shop to buy yarn for the "women's movement" should shop elsewhere, because she, a Christian, believes the movement to be "vulgar, vile and evil." After Pam's note, several other knitters have sent me links to that article, and were wondering what I thought.<br />
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So, here's what I think:<br />
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1) When Ms. Poe called the movement vulgar, vile and evil, she was calling me vulgar, vile and evil. She was calling women and men I love and respect vulgar, vile and evil as well. You know how I feel about bully speech -- if she was trying to convince people of some larger truth, she lost her argument with me when she started name-calling.<br />
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2) Ms. Poe's remarks have only served to drive another wedge between women. As followers of the movement learned of her stand and statement, they reacted with a YUGE flood of comments on that Facebook post. Despite Ms. Poe's exhortation that her post was not a "platform to hash out my beliefs v. your beliefs," 13,000 replies later, that's exactly what it has become, built upon a platform she erected all by herself. I haven't read all 13,000, but lots of the posts are simple reminders of what the movement means for all women; however, many commentors are disgusted with Ms. Poe, her shop and policies (which are extreme and which I've never seen posted in any other shop -- no children, no returns/refunds/exchanges, no touching the yarn if you just put on lotion (?) and $75 an hour for knitting lessons/consultation. At that rate, our library owes me around $30,000. I'll take that in books and yarn, please). Some bully Ms. Poe right back, and you know where that leads -- anger, hatred and division. <br />
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3) This is poor business practice. Although she stated that she didn't need the business of folks like me who might craft something she sees as subversive or evil, I'm pretty sure she needs all the customers she can get -- small yarn shops struggle to stay afloat, and I'm sad to say I've seen several fail. Many knitters (me) love to travel, and in their travels, search out local yarn shops. Now, many knitters who visit charming Franklin, Tennessee won't bother to stop and shop at The Joy of Knitting. (Of course, the evil part of me wants to drive to Franklin tomorrow, have lunch with Pam, buy some yarn at this shop, knit penis cozies for Chippendale dancers and send Ms. Poe some photos. The nicer part of me tells the evil part to shut it and read the previous posts on this blog.)<br />
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4) I am a Christian, too. I don't think this is how the Jesus I love would have handled the March/Movement participants. I'm thinking there would have been some listening, some compassion, some discussion and some hugs. <br />
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5) If when we die we are judged by what people did with the things we might have sold them, a lot of people -- I'm thinking of cucumber farmers, especially -- are in big trouble. <br />
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6) Ms. Poe needs to read some history of the women's movement in the United States and say a prayer of thanks for the thousands of women who worked ceaselessly so that she can vote, hold political office, go to the college of her choice, own a business, theoretically earn an equitable salary, marry who she wishes to marry (and divorce according to her own will), receive adequate healthcare, decide when and if she should have children and then continue work after. If she would think about it, she would recognize that what she has accomplished as a small business owner is not just a result of her hard work and choices -- it is also the product of those women who had <b><i>nothing</i></b> in the way of rights, career and income, but would not allow for the women of the future to be similarly afflicted. <br />
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I recognize that. And am so thankful. And cannot stay quiet because I have two daughters, two granddaughters, and so many, many young women I love (and so many more I will never know) who deserve a future where equality is no longer a debatable issue, but an unspoken reality. <br />
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Ms. Poe wrote that "the women's movement is counterproductive to unity of family, friends, community and nation." <br />
That's not what I saw in the photos of marches all over the world, where waves of pink-hatted women linked arms, sang songs, laughed and cried together.<br />
That not what I heard in the stories of the women who marched for awareness of women's' issues -- health, equality and an end to violence again women. <br />
And that's certainly not what I feel. But you probably knew that.<br />
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This blog is my tiny part that movement. And I am happy to be a part. Now, I'm off to cast on ...<br />
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<i>Don't be so scared of changing and rearranging yourself</i></div>
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<i>It's time for jumping down from the shelf - a little bit.</i><br />
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<br />Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-56160861531267543852017-01-24T12:08:00.000-08:002017-01-28T02:42:05.690-08:00Language and Bullies. The Language of Bullies. Bullies of Language.I love words.<br />
I love reading words, I love writing words.<br />
I love calligraphy and doodling words -- even during meetings, which I recently found out is not rude as I feared, but is in fact <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2015/07/doodling-for-cognitive-benefits/398027/">a beneficial tool for thinking</a>. Thanks, research!<br />
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I love big words that send me to the dictionary, and I love short little words that pack a lexical punch. <br />
And, I love a couple of curse words. I'm just warning you. "Shit" is my go-to for typing errors, dropped knitting stitches and mistakes at the piano. And thanks to the events of 2016, I have welcomed "fuck" into my vocabulary in all its incarnations: noun, verb, adjective, adverb and most prominently, interjection. <br />
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I don't like curses that use the Lord's name in vain. This probably stems from some time spent over the kitchen sink getting my mouth washed out for "gaw" and "geeze", which to my mother were far too close to you-know-what. She took the 10 Commandments very seriously, especially the 4th. <br />
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I have never heard a synonym for "vagina" that didn't make me cringe. Just say vagina, ok? And any time you want to use a female genitalia-derived slur to describe or deride another human, just don't.<br />
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That's what I hate most of all -- words/curses/profanity that put down another person. Calling someone a "pussy" (probably my very least favorite word ever) to define athletic prowess or manliness seems antithetical to its other often-used-but-still-inappropriate definition: that place where so many long to be for comfort and satisfaction (how's that for sexy talk?) "Retard" should only be used when referring to slowing the spoilage of food. You may use "bitch" when referring to a mama dog, "dike" if you're travelling to Holland, and never forget the space between fat and so, as in "I didn't want you to choke on the fat so I cut if off your pork chop."<br />
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This is bully speech. Using our beautifully complex language to brutalize another person should be completely unacceptable to anyone who loves words. And people. Bully speech is unacceptable for my family, my friends, strangers, teachers, coaches and the President. <br />
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Bully speech clouds arguments. It steals the focus away from important issues. It breaks hearts and lets hatred fill the broken places. <br />
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So you won't find it here. <br />
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Let's talk policy, human rights, environmental stewardship and social justice, but without putting anyone down (or their spouse, their children, or their wardrobe).<br />
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Peace.<br />
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<i>It's time for jumping down from the shelf - a little bit.</i><br />
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<br />Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-18304507244464415492017-01-22T10:22:00.000-08:002017-01-28T02:42:51.340-08:00May This Be a Spot of ReferenceSee that column over there on the right? I have listed some links to elected officials; you can email them from there, or call, or use paper and a real pen to write a heart-felt letter. That's what I used to do, but with the advent of the internet, it became much easier to email. <br />
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I later found out that the emails I had sent every day for many months (in opposition to what I saw as a relaxing of Indiana gun laws) were lost in cyberspace due to a glitch in the www.in.gov website. Which made me cry a little. OK, a lot.<br />
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So now, I call. <br />
So call. You will probably get an answering machine, but call anyway.<br />
Call.<br />
Call.<br />
Call.<br />
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I'll be more adding links to organizations I support, petitions to sign and ways to protest. <br />
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Stay tuned.<br />
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<i>Life is a reality, you can't always run away</i></div>
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<i>Don't be so scared of changing and rearranging yourself</i></div>
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<i>It's time for jumping down from the shelf - a little bit.</i><br />
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Georgiannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812645530261841610noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4086770053982393180.post-3958591072567076842017-01-20T09:57:00.000-08:002017-01-28T02:43:55.114-08:00Why?Why am I starting another blog? <br />
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I have a perfectly nice, cute little blog I started in 2007, filled with family, knitting, recipes, my sweet little dog (may she rest in peace) and some political/social commentary here and there. I haven't posted there since August of 2015.<br />
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I have a perfectly nice, cute business blog that I started in January of 2015 but haven't posted on since September of last year.<br />
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I have a perfectly nice presence on Facebook, both personally and business-wise. I have a cute little Instagram account. I don't do Twitter or Snapchat but if I did, you can bet they would be cute and nice as well. <br />
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But things have changed. The country has changed. I have changed. <br />
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And while I still believe in cute and nice, it's time to jump down from the shelf (get it? <i>Georgy Girl</i>? The Seekers? 1966?) and stand up taller, speak out more and help others find a path to justice and peace. <br />
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People tell me I'm a pretty OK writer, so I'll be posting my thoughts here, plus I'll be gathering and sharing ways other SJW's and special snowflakes (which would be a perfectly cute and nice label if it weren't so cloyingly derogatory) like me can speak out, take action and make a difference. <br />
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Here we go.<br />
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<i>Life is a reality, you can't always run away</i></div>
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<i>Don't be so scared of changing and rearranging yourself</i></div>
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<i>It's time for jumping down from the shelf - a little bit.</i></div>
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